Learn to reflect the kindness

Many people are so fussy when they see someone who is not good as they expectation  or faith. It leads they nature to comment, advice, or suggest something better as they believe. Unfortunately, the ways to convey good intention are sometimes matter.
Advising in bad manner, commenting with hate speech, or suggesting by interfering people for instance.

Giving goodness is supposed to be reflected by good way as well. What do you think if your friend give you money by throwing them in your face? Insisting to help your friend while he no need any bear a hand? The first is irritating while the second is annoying.

It is great  having good intention, however we must to relearn how to be more heedful to put proper means.